Tragedy Strikes Indiscriminately
Tragedy strikes indiscriminately, and each one impacts
people differently. Our community has
suffered another tragedy this week, with our church again impacted as well. I have seen, and felt, a variety of emotions
throughout. Our family knows the Ingrham
family in several ways through church and the community, and we as a family dealt
with those personal emotions this weekend.
I know several of the pastors who have reached out to and members of the
Ingrham family and seen the stress they have been through. I also know several of the Sheriff’s deputies
and emergency personnel who were involved, talked with some of their family
about the stress they have felt, and have heard of some efforts undertaken by
our deputies who personally went above and beyond in the efforts they took,
both on and off duty. I am proud of
them.
There are a lot of emotions that have gone through me over
the last few days, due to some of our own family issues as well as the events
from last Friday. Pastor Carr talked
about it on Sunday when he addressed our church family after suffering from yet
another significant tragedy; I have mentioned before that Kedarie Johnson had attended
Harmony. Pastor Carr talked about a few
things that are part of times like these.
I don’t have my notes from what he said, but I do remember some of those
thoughts. They included the need to
grieve, and the recognition that there will be questioning and anger. He talked also about the need to come
together in love and support. He noted
that we do not live in a perfect world; there is evil that must be confronted. He also noted that there is a source of
comfort out there for those who are willing to seek it. My prayers are with all who have been
impacted over the past few days. My hope
is, much as after Kedarie’s death, we can come together as a community and
support each other in the days and weeks ahead.
I did want to say again how thankful I am for the people who
have chosen to place themselves in the middle of these difficult events, the
pastors, counselors, and emergency service personnel who have come alongside
hurting people and been directly impacted.
These are people who, time and again, place themselves in the middle of
high emotional stress to meet the needs of others. This emotional stress can wear people down,
though. The May 2016 issue of Public Management magazine had
an article entitled “Trauma Takes Its Toll” as its centerpiece. The article focused on the significant
emotional impact our emergency services personnel, including police, fire, EMS
and dispatchers, face. They discussed a
survey undertaken by Fitch & Associates of fire and EMS personnel. Among the results were that 37% of
respondents had contemplated suicide, and that 6.6% had attempted it (both of
which are about 10 times the national average).
The article also noted that at least 759 firefighters have committed
suicide since 2012, and that estimates range from 125 to 300 police officers
committing suicide every year.
These are sobering statistics, and I have personally seen
people in these industries suffer from depression. We offer support for our employees, and we
have a very active chaplaincy program available through our police department. Yet we need to do more. The article mentions several action items to
consider as an employer, and we need to seriously consider them. We as a community need to support them as
well. Tragedy strikes indiscriminately
every day on some level. People need to
continue to see a friendly smile and find a willing ear. My prayer is we will find ways to be that for
each other.
